Virginity is a very significant thing in many people’s lives. Whether you identify as heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, etc., losing virginity is a pretty big deal.
Many people choose to wait until marriage to do so, while others do not. There is no judgment for which choice you make!
For those that choose to wait until marriage, there is a way to restore your virginity after marriage. Alum can be used to restore the hymen and vaginal walls after intercourse.
This is a pretty popular myth that many people believe in. However, it is not true! There are ways to test for virginity that do not involve using alum.
This article will go into more detail on how to use alum to restore your virginity and what ways there are to test for virginity without it.
Grate the alum stone
After you have obtained your alum, you will need to grate it. Grating the alum stone makes it easier to mix with water and allows for more exposure to the powder.
You can do this by hand or use a food processor or grater. Simply place the alum in a pan or dish and rub it back and forth or back and forth in the processor until it is finely grated.
It is important to note that if the alum is not grated, it will not work as effectively. The particles must be very thin so that they dissolve in the water when mixed. Grating ensures this!
Alum can be hard to find, so if you cannot find it locally, try ordering it online. There are many websites that sell genuine alum at a good price.
Mix the alum powder with water
Once you have collected your alum, you will need to mix it with some water to create the vaginal washing solution. A ratio of one teaspoon of alum to two cups of water is a good start.
You can make the solution as strong as you would like. The stronger the solution, the more sore you may be after sex. It all depends on personal preference!
We recommend using a soft brush or washcloth to gently wash off the solution. Doing so with your fingers can lead to getting too much water in the vagina, which can change the effects of the alum treatment.
Alum is a crystal that can easily dry out, so it is best to keep your solution in a clean container that has a cover. This way it will not lose its properties over time.
Soak a cotton ball in the mixture
Now it’s time to put your alum into use. Take a cotton ball and soak it in the alum solution. Then, gently insert the cotton ball into your vagina, ensuring that it gets into the vaginal canal.
Let the cotton ball sit in your vagina for as long as you can. The longer it sits, the more protection it will provide you against infection. Ideally, you’d sleep with the cotton ball in your vagina, but since that’s not very comfortable, I would recommend doing it overnight.
Keep in mind that this will be very uncomfortable, so do not worry if you wake up due to pain. That means it is working!
After a few hours or days (depending on how many times you ovulate), take the cotton ball out and throw it away.
Insert into the vagina
Alum inserts are easy to make and use. All you have to do is mix the alum powder with water until it forms a gel, then let it dry. Once it is dry, you can store it in a jar or any waterproof container until you need it.
You can buy empty jars at either stores like Sephora or Amazon, or if you have a mason jar handy, that will work too!
Once you need to use the insert, soak it in water for a few minutes then rub your fingers over the surface to feel if it has dried enough. If so, you are ready to use it!
Inserting the alum insert into the vagina is very simple. Just lay down and slide it into place. It may be uncomfortable at first, but as it absorbs moisture from your vagina, it will get softer.
Keep inside for 12 hours
After you rinse off your alum solution, you should keep your vaginal area dry for at least 12 hours. This is to make sure that the solution has dried up completely.
If you wore a sleepwear then kept the area dry by sleeping in it, then it should be fine. If not, just make sure to check if there is any moisture in the morning before getting up and about.
Some women feel uncomfortable about sleeping with nothing on so if you are one of them, try keeping a pair of tight underwear on to keep the area dry. It is more important to ensure that there is no moisture present than to protect the area from external elements.
Sleeping in tight underwear also helps in keeping the area dry so that there is no discomfort or itchiness in the morning.
Repeat for 3 days (maximum of 5 days)
After you have washed yourself, you must wash yourself with alum. You can either use pure powdered alum or a soap made of alum.
Again, make sure you rinse yourself well.
Alum is a mineral that is highly astringent. This means that it acts as a chemical exfoliant, pulling moisture from the surface of the skin.
It is commonly used in beauty products to help smooth the skin and give it a fresh feeling. In this case, it helps restore your virginity by removing any traces of semen on your body.
On the first day after intercourse, you should wash yourself with warm water and soap or shampoo. The next two days, you should only wash with warm water and no soap or shampoo. This will help get rid of any residual semen on your body.
Know that this method may not work if you are past your virginity date
While this method is not very common, it is worth mentioning. Many people are unaware of the power of alum to restore virginity.
If you are past the point of virginity loss, then you can still use alum to freshen up down there. It will clean you up and prepare you for sex, which is a nice bonus.
Alum is a chemical compound that is found in nature. It is most famously used in food as a baking ingredient. Alum has many uses in personal care as well, including vaginal hygiene.
If you are unsure of when your virginity was lost, then the best time to use this tip is within the first few days after sex. If you have a short period of discomfort or dryness, then this may help restore some of the moisture in your vagina.
Talk to your doctor if you have any concerns or questions
Although this process is simple, if you do not have the right information, you can potentially put your health at risk. If you are unsure of how to use alum to restore your virginity, talk to your doctor or a healthcare provider about your concerns.
They will be able to inform you if this process is safe for you or not. If it is safe, they can also help you with the process if you are struggling.
While many myths about sex and sexual health are funny, this is one that could really harm you. Just because something is ‘natural’ doesn’t make it good for you.
Alum may be an old-fashioned remedy, but it certainly isn’t natural! It’s a chemical compound that has been proven to work.