The idea of vaginal tightness and elasticity being an important factor in sex is a relatively new idea. Historically, sex has been about the man’s satisfaction, not the woman’s.
As a woman, you can appreciate the fact that our society is slowly embracing the concept of female sexual gratification as being just as important as male gratification. This is a good thing!
With the wide availability of porn, many people (men and women alike) have gained the idea that sex is all about penetration and not much else. This could not be farther from the truth!
The way you move your body, what positions you choose, and whether or not you experience orgasm all contribute to satisfying sex. The more aspects of sex that you can enjoy, the better!
This article will discuss one way to enhance your sexual experience in bed: using hot water to soak in before intercourse.
Hot water and tightness
While there is no scientific proof that showering with hot water will tighten your vagina, many people claim that the heat of the water will help relax your muscles.
Many say that the warmth also helps to relax your vaginal muscles, making you feel tighter. This is most likely because of the relaxation effect of the heat.
Some women claim that washing with hot water reduces odor as well, which is a nice bonus!
So if you are looking for a way to improve your vaginal tightness and odorlessness, try taking a hot shower! Or take a bath if you prefer. Either way works!
Some people claim that taking baths instead of showers helps preserve vaginal tightness because of this fact. However, there is no proof of this and it depends on the person which one they prefer.
Hot water and lubrication
Once you have your fingers in, try slowly pulling your fingers out while inserting the shower head into your vagina. Once the shower head is in, turn on the hot water and let it massage your vaginal walls.
Once you are comfortable with the amount of water in the tub or shower, you can add lubrication to your masturbation session. Lubrication can be used to enhance your experience by making it more pleasurable.
Some people use personal lubricants like Astroglide or Foria, but any water-based lube will work. Coconut oil is a popular choice among many women because it is natural and cost-effective.
Manual masturbation is a fun way to explore your body and discover what feels good for you.
Tightness of the vagina is perceived as undesirable by many people
Though many people believe that a tight vagina is desirable, this perception is one that is likely shaped by popular media.
In reality, tightness of the vagina is perceived as undesirable by many people. People who have sex with women often mention that it can be uncomfortable to engage in vaginal sex when the vagina is tight.
That said, it is possible that people who enjoy tighter vaginas may feel more pleasure themselves due to the increased internal stimulation. This is because more friction and pressure is placed on the internal parts of the vagina.
Those who enjoy sex and want to increase their pleasure may try to loosen their vagina through different methods. The most common method is to use lubricant on your fingers and internally massage your clitoris to induce arousal. Then, using muscle control, push out to relax your vaginal walls.
How to get hot water to tighten your vag
While there are ways to get a tighter vag naturally, they take time and dedication. There is no way to instantly tighten your vagina.
Toning exercises can help improve muscle strength, but they will not improve sexual function. These exercises can be done anytime and do not require equipment.
The best ones to use are the pelvic floor exercises. These require no external input and can be done anywhere. All you have to do is contract your pelvic floor muscles and hold for ten seconds. Then relax for ten seconds and repeat until you feel tired or exhausted.
Warm water typically feels good so if you want to add something into your vaginal tightening routine, try bathing in warm water. It does not matter the depth of the water, but it might feel better on your body.
Take a hot shower
Okay, so this one seems like a no-brainer, but you would be surprised how many women do not do this. Taking a hot shower will help relax your vaginal muscles and increase blood flow.
A hot shower will also help to wash away any bacteria or yeast that may be growing in your vagina. This is why it is important to keep your vulva clean and dry.
By taking a hot shower, you are washing off any sweat or moisture on your body and creating a warm environment for the bad bacteria and yeast to die.
If you are one of those people that loves taking a cold shower, try switching it up and taking a warm one instead. You may feel more relaxed and comfortable afterwards!
General tips: When washing your vagina, make sure to use gentle soap or no soap at all. Some women find that using soap makes their genitals itch or sting, so only use it if you need it.
Take a bath
If you want to relax your vaginal muscles, take a long bath. Stay in the bath for as long as you want, and relax all of your muscles.
While in the bath, try rubbing your hands over your vaginal area. Feel how soft the water has made your skin and muscles, and notice how much more relaxed you are.
Try keeping one hand on your vagina and one hand on the side of the tub to keep balance. This way you can stay in the warm water as long as you like while relaxing all of your muscles.
Bathing can be a helpful way to relax tight vaginal muscles because it involves both physical and mental relaxation. Physical relaxation refers to relaxing your body muscles, and mental relaxation refers to calming your thoughts.
Both of these types of relaxation help prevent tightness in the vagina because they reduce stress.
Use a hot water bottle
If you do not have a vagina, you can use a hot water bottle on any sensitive areas of your body to help relax them. This can be your chest, back, neck, or anywhere that feels stressed or tense.
A hot water bottle can be used in place of a weighted blanket as both provide warmth and comfort. Both are cost-effective solutions to keep you warm at night while sleeping.
As we mentioned earlier, the concept of vaginal tightness being associated with value is very prominent in some cultures. This is why some women may choose to use vaginal tightening products to feel more confident about themselves.
However, the truth is that there is no solution to make your vagina tighter. Any product claiming otherwise is misleading and fraudulent.
Use heat therapy devices
Another way to relax your vaginal muscles is to use heat therapy devices. These can be bought at most major retailers, such as Amazon, Target, and Walmart.
There are several types of heat therapy devices that work for vagina relaxation. The most common is a warm washcloth that you hold against your vagina for a few minutes.
You can also use a warm towel, a heating pad, a rice sock, or a heating coil to apply heat to your vaginal and pelvic region. Just make sure it is not too hot or it could burn you.
The benefits of using heat therapy devices is that they are cheap and accessible. You can pick them up at your local store or online for a decent price!
Try using both cold and heat therapies to help relax your vagina- although do not do this daily, only when you feel the need to relax yourself.